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RANKED CHOICE DATING PROFILE

Leveraging insights from behavioral science and psychology, we identify how you naturally handle social situations and compare those instincts to successful relationship practices.

How to complete your profile:

For each of the six scenarios below, please rank the four responses from 1 to 4.

1 is your first instinct—what you would most likely do.
4 is the last way you would likely respond.
There are no wrong answers! For the most accurate results, be honest about who you are today, not who you are striving to be in the future.

The Group Dynamic

Group plans for a trip suddenly become chaotic and disorganized. What is your role?

I immediately take ownership of the budget, bookings, and schedule.
I use humor and high energy to keep morale up so the chaos doesn't ruin the vibe.
I step in to calm the room, de-escalate tension, and mediate clashing opinions.
I suggest a break and a quick walk to get everyone moving and out of their heads.

The Career Crossroads

A major promotion offers more wealth but requires a much heavier workload. How do you weigh it?

Does this fit my long-term financial goals and 10-year life vision?
Can I maintain my fitness, sleep, and mental health under this load?
Will I still have the capacity to be deeply present for my partner?
Will I still have time to be active with my core group of friends?

The Unexpected Setback

A crisis hits a high-stakes project. What is your first instinct?

I build a checklist and start solving tasks as efficiently as possible.
I take charge and provide clear direction without assigning blame.
I process the stress with a trusted confidant on the team to ensure we are aligned before acting.
I consider how this setback affects long-term goals.

The Crowded Room

You enter a social event where you know very few people. How do you start?

I focus on my posture and body language to project confidence and availability.
I strike up light conversation and use banter to navigate through the room.
I confidently introduce myself to the host or the people I most want to network with.
I find one interesting person for a deep, 1-on-1 conversation.

The Daily Friction

When your life becomes high-stress and overwhelming, how do you re-regulate?

I hit the gym or go for a run to burn off the tension.
I organize my space—cleaning or managing logistics restores my calm.
I reach out to my core group of friends to connect and get support.
I disconnect from the noise and decompress at home.

The Meaningful Conflict

A friend expresses a deeply held belief that fundamentally opposes your own. How do you handle it?

I engage in a respectful but passionate debate of ideas.
I focus on their underlying emotions more than the topic of the moment.
I look for a middle ground so we can move forward.
I weigh if this difference alters the long-term future of our friendship.

Your Raw to Refined Dating Profile

Your ACTIVE LEVERS are the life and social skills that come most naturally to you. Leverage these today to enhance your dating and relationship success.

Your UNDERUTILIZED LEVERS are areas where investing intentional focus can help you level up in life and love!

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